feat: ADR-0035 4c — DROP TABLE [IF EXISTS]

Add advanced-mode SQL `DROP TABLE [IF EXISTS] <name>` -> SqlDropTable,
executing through the existing do_drop_table (cascade / inbound-
relationship refusal / metadata cleanup) — full parity with the simple
`drop table`. The only new behaviour is `IF EXISTS` as a
no-op-with-note: a new DropOutcome::Skipped mirroring
CreateOutcome::Skipped (journalled, no snapshot), rendered via a new
ddl.drop_skipped_absent note + DslDropSkipped event.

- Grammar: SQL_DROP_TABLE node (entry `drop`, shape `table [if exists]
  <name> [;]`), registered Advanced. SQL-first dispatch: `drop table T`
  -> SqlDropTable in advanced; `drop column`/`relationship`/`index`/
  `constraint` fall back to the simple `drop` node (and still execute).
- Worker: Request::SqlDropTable + db.sql_drop_table; the if-exists-and-
  absent arm journals + replies Skipped without a snapshot, else
  snapshot_then(do_drop_table) -> Dropped.
- Completion: advanced `drop ` now surfaces the SQL `table` (the
  shared-entry-word behaviour from `create`); test split into simple
  (full DSL list) + advanced (SQL surface).

Known shared-entry-word completion unevenness (advanced `drop ` offers
only `table`; partial `drop rel` returns an empty list) deferred to 4i
(merge candidate sets for shared entry words) along with a flagged user
request to visually distinguish simple- vs advanced-mode completions in
the hint UI — tracked in ADR §13 4i (d)/(e), the 4c plan, and the
completion test. The DSL drops still parse + execute via fallback.

10 new tests (parse/builder + Tier-3: drop existing + one-undo-step +
restore, IF EXISTS skip + journal, plain-absent error, inbound refusal).
Docs: ADR-0035 Status/§13, README, requirements.md Q1.

Tests: 1805 passing, 0 failing, 1 ignored. Clippy clean.

src/event.rs

@@ -35,6 +35,12 @@ pub enum AppEvent {
         command: Command,
         description: TableDescription,
     },
+    /// A SQL `DROP TABLE IF EXISTS` matched no table — a no-op
+    /// (ADR-0035 §4, 4c). Renders a "doesn't exist — skipped" note;
+    /// there is no structure to show.
+    DslDropSkipped {
+        command: Command,
+    },
     /// A `show data` query succeeded.
     DslDataSucceeded { command: Command, data: DataResult },
     /// An `explain …` command succeeded (ADR-0028). `plan`