Grammar: with-pk column specs use name(type), matching add column

`create table … with pk` parsed column types as `name:type`,
while `add column` uses `name(type)`. Unify on the parens
form so column-type syntax is consistent across the DSL:

    create table T with pk id(serial), name(text)

Only `COL_SPEC` changes (`:` → `( … )`); `build_create_table`
reads columns by role, so it is unaffected. The `:` that
separates table from column in `add column` / `drop column`
is unchanged. Sweeps the test suite, the typing-surface
matrix (two `after_colon` cells renamed to `after_paren`,
4 snapshots regenerated), the friendly catalog's usage
templates, ADR-0009's example, and requirements.md.

1039 passing / 0 failing / 1 ignored; clippy clean.

tests/typing_surface/snapshots/typing_surface_matrix__typing_surface__create_table__after_paren_expects_type_candidates@after_paren.snap

@@ -1,10 +1,10 @@
 ---
 source: tests/typing_surface/create_table.rs
-description: "input=\"create table Customers with pk Code:\" cursor=36"
+description: "input=\"create table Customers with pk Code(\" cursor=36"
 expression: "& a"
 ---
 Assessment {
-    input: "create table Customers with pk Code:",
+    input: "create table Customers with pk Code(",
     cursor: 36,
     state: IncompleteAtEof,
     hint: Some(

tests/typing_surface/snapshots/typing_surface_matrix__typing_surface__create_table__after_pk_space_with_col_name_typed_expects_paren@after_col_name.snap

@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ Assessment {
     state: IncompleteAtEof,
     hint: Some(
         Prose(
-            "Next: `:`",
+            "Next: `(`",
         ),
     ),
     completion: None,

tests/typing_surface/snapshots/typing_surface_matrix__typing_surface__create_table__create_table_with_compound_pk_parses@with_compound_pk.snap

@@ -1,11 +1,11 @@
 ---
 source: tests/typing_surface/create_table.rs
-description: "input=\"create table Memberships with pk UserId:int, GroupId:int\" cursor=56"
+description: "input=\"create table Memberships with pk UserId(int), GroupId(int)\" cursor=58"
 expression: "& a"
 ---
 Assessment {
-    input: "create table Memberships with pk UserId:int, GroupId:int",
-    cursor: 56,
+    input: "create table Memberships with pk UserId(int), GroupId(int)",
+    cursor: 58,
     state: Valid,
     hint: Some(
         Prose(

tests/typing_surface/snapshots/typing_surface_matrix__typing_surface__create_table__create_table_with_explicit_pk_parses@with_explicit_pk.snap

@@ -1,11 +1,11 @@
 ---
 source: tests/typing_surface/create_table.rs
-description: "input=\"create table Customers with pk Code:text\" cursor=40"
+description: "input=\"create table Customers with pk Code(text)\" cursor=41"
 expression: "& a"
 ---
 Assessment {
-    input: "create table Customers with pk Code:text",
-    cursor: 40,
+    input: "create table Customers with pk Code(text)",
+    cursor: 41,
     state: Valid,
     hint: Some(
         Prose(