Grammar: with-pk column specs use name(type), matching add column

`create table … with pk` parsed column types as `name:type`,
while `add column` uses `name(type)`. Unify on the parens
form so column-type syntax is consistent across the DSL:

    create table T with pk id(serial), name(text)

Only `COL_SPEC` changes (`:` → `( … )`); `build_create_table`
reads columns by role, so it is unaffected. The `:` that
separates table from column in `add column` / `drop column`
is unchanged. Sweeps the test suite, the typing-surface
matrix (two `after_colon` cells renamed to `after_paren`,
4 snapshots regenerated), the friendly catalog's usage
templates, ADR-0009's example, and requirements.md.

1039 passing / 0 failing / 1 ignored; clippy clean.

docs/adr/0009-dsl-command-syntax-conventions.md

@@ -26,7 +26,7 @@ The DSL surface follows three rules.
 Required parts of a command are written in plain words and
 read like English. Examples:
 
-- `create table <Name> with pk <name>:<type>`
+- `create table <Name> with pk <name>(<type>)`
 - `add column to table <Name>: <Name> (<Type>)`
 - `drop table <Name>`