feat: H1a parse-error gaps G2–G4 + advanced near-miss matrix (ADR-0042)

Close the three remaining ADR-0042 triage gaps, each test-first, and
lock the advanced-mode near-miss matrix.

G2 — bare `select` dumped the 14-item expression first-set. Collapse
it to "a projection: `*`, a column, or an expression" in the error
message only (parser::format_walker_error), detected by the joint
`distinct`+`all` quantifier signature unique to a projection start.
Render-only: completion/hints still expand the full set (typing-surface
matrix unchanged).

G3 — the usage block was mode-blind: advanced `create table` showed the
DSL `create table … with pk …` template. usage_key(s)_for_input gain
mode-aware `_in_mode` variants selecting candidates by CommandCategory;
render_usage_block and the typing-time ambient usage thread the
submission mode. Advanced `create` now shows both SQL forms. A fallback
covers shared SQL nodes (insert/update/delete) that declare no
usage_ids of their own — without it they regressed to the
available-commands fallback (caught by the new advanced matrix).

G4 — `with` borrowed `select`'s usage template; give it its own
parse.usage.with CTE template.

Tests: new near_miss_matrix_advanced_mode (12 SQL-surface cases incl.
the available-commands regression guard) + per-gap tests; removed the
temporary baseline_dump. Full suite green (lib 1578 / it 386 /
typing_surface_matrix 192); clippy clean.

src/dsl/grammar/mod.rs

@@ -533,13 +533,73 @@ pub struct CommandNode {
 /// Returns the canonical (primary-form) entry literal and the
 /// `usage_ids` list, or `None` if no entry word matches.
 #[must_use]
-pub fn usage_keys_for_input(source: &str) -> Option<(&'static str, &'static [&'static str])> {
+pub fn usage_keys_for_input(source: &str) -> Option<(&'static str, Vec<&'static str>)> {
+    usage_keys_for_input_in_mode(source, crate::mode::Mode::Simple)
+}
+
+/// Mode-aware variant of [`usage_keys_for_input`] (ADR-0042 G3).
+///
+/// A shared entry word (`create`, `drop`, `insert`, …) registers a
+/// `Simple` DSL node *and* one or more `Advanced` SQL nodes. The
+/// usage block must reflect the surface the user is actually typing:
+/// the SQL forms in `Advanced` mode, the DSL forms in `Simple` mode
+/// — otherwise advanced-mode `create` shows the DSL `create table …
+/// with pk …` template, which is not valid SQL.
+///
+/// Selection prefers candidates whose [`CommandCategory`] matches
+/// the mode; if the entry word has none in that category (an
+/// app-lifecycle command is `Simple`-only yet usable in both modes),
+/// every candidate is used. The returned keys are the union of the
+/// selected nodes' `usage_ids`, de-duplicated in registry order — so
+/// advanced `create` shows both `sql_create_table` and
+/// `sql_create_index`.
+#[must_use]
+pub fn usage_keys_for_input_in_mode(
+    source: &str,
+    mode: crate::mode::Mode,
+) -> Option<(&'static str, Vec<&'static str>)> {
     use crate::dsl::walker::lex_helpers::{consume_ident, skip_whitespace};
     let start = skip_whitespace(source, 0);
     let (kw_start, kw_end) = consume_ident(source, start)?;
     let word = &source[kw_start..kw_end];
-    let (_, node) = command_for_entry_word(word)?;
-    Some((node.entry.primary, node.usage_ids))
+    let candidates = commands_for_entry_word(word);
+    if candidates.is_empty() {
+        return None;
+    }
+    let want = if mode == crate::mode::Mode::Advanced {
+        CommandCategory::Advanced
+    } else {
+        CommandCategory::Simple
+    };
+    let union = |nodes: &[(usize, &'static CommandNode, CommandCategory)]| -> Vec<&'static str> {
+        let mut keys: Vec<&'static str> = Vec::new();
+        for (_, node, _) in nodes {
+            for k in node.usage_ids {
+                if !keys.contains(k) {
+                    keys.push(*k);
+                }
+            }
+        }
+        keys
+    };
+    let matched: Vec<(usize, &'static CommandNode, CommandCategory)> =
+        candidates.iter().copied().filter(|(_, _, cat)| *cat == want).collect();
+    // Prefer the mode-matching nodes' usage. But a shared SQL node
+    // (`SQL_INSERT` / `SQL_UPDATE` / `SQL_DELETE`) declares no
+    // `usage_ids` of its own — it reuses the DSL template. When the
+    // mode-preferred set yields no usage keys, fall back to every
+    // candidate so the entry word still shows a usage block rather
+    // than the available-commands fallback (regression-locked by
+    // the advanced near-miss matrix).
+    let mut keys = union(&matched);
+    if keys.is_empty() {
+        keys = union(&candidates);
+    }
+    if keys.is_empty() {
+        return None;
+    }
+    let entry = candidates[0].1.entry.primary;
+    Some((entry, keys))
 }
 
 /// The single usage template most relevant to `source`, when
@@ -555,8 +615,19 @@ pub fn usage_keys_for_input(source: &str) -> Option<(&'static str, &'static [&'s
 /// show the whole family or nothing.
 #[must_use]
 pub fn usage_key_for_input(source: &str) -> Option<&'static str> {
+    usage_key_for_input_in_mode(source, crate::mode::Mode::Simple)
+}
+
+/// Mode-aware variant of [`usage_key_for_input`] (ADR-0042 G3) —
+/// disambiguates the single most-relevant usage key from the
+/// mode-selected key set.
+#[must_use]
+pub fn usage_key_for_input_in_mode(
+    source: &str,
+    mode: crate::mode::Mode,
+) -> Option<&'static str> {
     use crate::dsl::walker::lex_helpers::{consume_ident, skip_whitespace};
-    let (_entry, keys) = usage_keys_for_input(source)?;
+    let (_entry, keys) = usage_keys_for_input_in_mode(source, mode)?;
     let first = *keys.first()?;
     if keys.len() == 1 {
         return Some(first);