test: H1a near-miss matrix + friendlier add 1:n relationship label (ADR-0042)

Start the ADR-0042 §1 near-miss matrix: a table-driven
near_miss_matrix_simple_mode locking 26 simple-mode parse-error
renderings (every DSL entry word's bare/missing-clause cases plus the
mode arg-errors and the "this is SQL" rail), and an #[ignore]
baseline_dump capturing the full rendering for ongoing triage.

G1 fix: the bare `1` cardinality literal that opens `add 1:n
relationship …` rendered cryptically in expected-sets. Render it as
`1:n relationship` in error wording only (format_expectation) —
completion/hints still read the raw Expectation::Literal("1"), so the
candidate surface is unchanged. Updated the one anchor test.

Full suite green (lib 1578 / it 382 / typing_surface_matrix 192).

tests/it/parse_error_pedagogy.rs

@@ -13,6 +13,7 @@ use crossterm::event::{KeyCode, KeyEvent, KeyEventKind, KeyModifiers};
 use rdbms_playground::action::Action;
 use rdbms_playground::app::{App, OutputKind};
 use rdbms_playground::event::AppEvent;
+use rdbms_playground::mode::Mode;
 
 const fn key(code: KeyCode) -> AppEvent {
     AppEvent::Key(KeyEvent {
@@ -59,6 +60,149 @@ fn dump(input: &str, lines: &[String]) -> String {
     )
 }
 
+/// TEMP baseline-capture (ADR-0042 §1 step 1). Lenient: does not
+/// assert pass/fail — just dumps every output line so we can read
+/// the current rendering before writing assertions. Run with:
+///   cargo test -p ... --test it baseline_dump -- --nocapture --ignored
+/// Removed once the matrix assertions land.
+#[test]
+#[ignore = "baseline capture only; run with --ignored --nocapture"]
+fn baseline_dump() {
+    // (input, advanced?) — salient near-misses across entry words.
+    let cases: &[(&str, bool)] = &[
+        // --- app-lifecycle (simple) ---
+        ("quit now", false),
+        ("import", false),
+        ("mode sideways", false),
+        ("messages louder", false),
+        ("copy everything", false),
+        ("save sideways", false),
+        // --- DDL bare + missing-slot (simple) ---
+        ("create", false),
+        ("create table", false),
+        ("create table T", false),
+        ("drop", false),
+        ("drop table", false),
+        ("add", false),
+        ("add column", false),
+        ("rename", false),
+        ("rename column", false),
+        ("change", false),
+        ("change column", false),
+        // --- data bare + missing-clause (simple) ---
+        ("show", false),
+        ("show data", false),
+        ("insert", false),
+        ("insert into", false),
+        ("insert into T", false),
+        ("insert into T ('Oli')", false),
+        ("update", false),
+        ("update T", false),
+        ("update T set x=1", false),
+        ("delete", false),
+        ("delete from", false),
+        ("delete from T", false),
+        ("replay", false),
+        ("explain", false),
+        // --- advanced-only entry words ---
+        ("select", true),
+        ("select *", true),
+        ("select * from", true),
+        ("with", true),
+        ("alter", true),
+        ("alter table T", true),
+        // advanced-only word typed in SIMPLE mode → "this is SQL" hint
+        ("alter table T add column c int", false),
+        ("select * from T", false),
+        // --- advanced SQL variants + genuine gaps ---
+        ("insert into T", true),
+        ("update T", true),
+        ("delete from", true),
+        ("create", true),
+        ("create table", true),
+        ("create index", true),
+        ("drop", true),
+        ("drop index", true),
+    ];
+    for (input, advanced) in cases {
+        let mut app = App::new();
+        if *advanced {
+            app.mode = Mode::Advanced;
+        }
+        type_str(&mut app, input);
+        let actions = submit(&mut app);
+        let mode = if *advanced { "ADV" } else { "SIM" };
+        eprintln!("\n=== [{mode}] {input:?}  → actions: {actions:?}");
+        for l in &app.output {
+            eprintln!("    [{:?}] {}", l.kind, l.text);
+        }
+    }
+}
+
+/// The simple-mode near-miss matrix (ADR-0042 §1). Each row is a
+/// near-correct input plus substrings that MUST appear across its
+/// rendered error lines — the structural "name the missing
+/// keyword/clause" message and the per-command usage template.
+/// These are the cases triaged as already-good; the baseline dump
+/// (`baseline_dump`, #[ignore]) shows the full rendering. Cases
+/// flagged for wording fixes (bare `add` `1`, bare `select`
+/// first-set, mode-blind usage) are deliberately NOT locked here
+/// until their fixes land.
+#[test]
+fn near_miss_matrix_simple_mode() {
+    // (input, required-substrings-across-error-lines)
+    let matrix: &[(&str, &[&str])] = &[
+        // app-lifecycle arg errors
+        ("quit now", &["after `quit`, expected end of input", "  quit"]),
+        ("save sideways", &["after `save`, expected end of input", "save  |  save as"]),
+        ("mode sideways", &["unknown mode 'sideways'", "mode simple  |  mode advanced"]),
+        ("messages louder", &["unknown messages mode 'louder'", "messages short"]),
+        ("copy everything", &["unknown copy target 'everything'", "copy all"]),
+        // DDL bare + missing-slot
+        ("create", &["after `create`, expected `table`", "create table <Name> with pk"]),
+        ("create table", &["after `create table`, expected identifier", "create table <Name> with pk"]),
+        ("create table T", &["with pk", "create table <Name> with pk"]),
+        // G1: relationship cardinality reads as the named construct.
+        ("add", &["after `add`, expected `column`, `1:n relationship`", "add 1:n relationship"]),
+        ("drop table", &["after `drop table`, expected table name", "drop table <Name>"]),
+        ("add column", &["after `add column`, expected table name", "add column [to] [table]"]),
+        ("rename", &["after `rename`, expected `column`", "rename column [in] [table]"]),
+        ("rename column", &["after `rename column`, expected table name", "rename column [in] [table]"]),
+        ("change", &["after `change`, expected `column`", "change column [in] [table]"]),
+        ("change column", &["after `change column`, expected table name", "change column [in] [table]"]),
+        // data bare + missing-clause
+        ("insert", &["after `insert`, expected `into`", "insert into <Table>"]),
+        ("insert into", &["after `insert into`, expected table name", "insert into <Table>"]),
+        ("insert into T", &["after `insert into T`, expected `values` or `(`", "insert into <Table>"]),
+        ("update", &["after `update`, expected table name", "update <Table> set"]),
+        ("update T", &["after `update T`, expected `set`", "update <Table> set"]),
+        ("update T set x=1", &["expected `where` or `--all-rows`", "update <Table> set"]),
+        ("delete", &["after `delete`, expected `from`", "delete from <Table>"]),
+        ("delete from", &["after `delete from`, expected table name", "delete from <Table>"]),
+        ("delete from T", &["expected `where` or `--all-rows`", "delete from <Table>"]),
+        ("replay", &["after `replay`, expected string literal or path", "replay <path>"]),
+        ("explain", &["after `explain`, expected `show`, `update`, or `delete`", "explain show data"]),
+        // advanced-only entry word typed in simple mode → "this is SQL" rail
+        ("select * from T", &["`select` is SQL", "mode advanced"]),
+        ("alter table T add column c int", &["`alter` is SQL", "mode advanced"]),
+    ];
+    for (input, needles) in matrix {
+        let lines = error_lines_for(input);
+        let dump_msg = dump(input, &lines);
+        assert!(
+            lines.iter().any(|l| l.starts_with("parse error")),
+            "missing `parse error` line for {input:?}\n{dump_msg}",
+        );
+        let joined = lines.join("\n");
+        for needle in *needles {
+            assert!(
+                joined.contains(needle),
+                "near-miss {input:?} missing expected substring {needle:?}\n{dump_msg}",
+            );
+        }
+    }
+}
+
 #[test]
 fn create_alone_renders_create_table_usage() {
     let lines = error_lines_for("create");
@@ -81,15 +225,18 @@ fn create_alone_renders_create_table_usage() {
 fn add_alone_renders_both_add_family_usages() {
     let lines = error_lines_for("add");
     let dump_msg = dump("add", &lines);
-    // Aggregation across `choice` (ADR-0020): the structural
-    // error line lists both add-family entries.
+    // Aggregation across the top-level choice: the structural
+    // error line lists every add-family branch. ADR-0042 G1: the
+    // relationship branch renders as the friendly `1:n
+    // relationship` rather than the cryptic bare `1` cardinality
+    // literal.
     assert!(
         lines.iter().any(|l| {
             l.starts_with("parse error")
-                && l.contains("`1`")
+                && l.contains("`1:n relationship`")
                 && l.contains("`column`")
         }),
-        "expected aggregated `1` or `column` in structural error\n{dump_msg}",
+        "expected aggregated `1:n relationship` and `column` in structural error\n{dump_msg}",
     );
     // Usage block (ADR-0021): both add-* templates surface.
     assert!(